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Sunday, 18 December 2016

5 Things to Consider When Choosing A Good Marriage

5 Things to Consider When Choosing A Good Marriage

A good marriage is the legal union between a man and the exclusion of others, it requires inseparable joining of husband and  wife throughout their life time.

A good marriage must begin with a leaving of all other relationships in other to establish a permanent relationship that must involve the consent of both a man and a woman. A lot of planning goes before marriage and the most important of all these planning is the official or ceremonial joining of the couple.
This event is always joyous. But on the other hand many marriages end up in the court room.

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In other to avoid the incidence of divorce and unhappy home, there is need for people to look closely and acquire self understanding before going into marriage. Statistics has shown that approximately 50 % of marriages these days end up in divorce court.

Therefore, factors like the age of other partner, educational level, religious belief, family background, should be put into consideration in making a good choice for a good marriage.


 1. Courtship

God has designed a good marriage to meet the first problem of humans which is loneliness, but strongly prohibits fornication.

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Having a long  courtship makes or creates room for you to be acquainted to have mutual understanding and interest except in the area of fornication which should be avoided.

5 Things to Consider When Choosing A Good Marriage
When it comes to courtship try as much as possible to date around, don't be in a hurry because a life companion is not an experiment, and don't marry the first person you date.

2. Be Prayerful

It is only God that knows the best. Then try and get a closer look at our partner to see if he or she is really practicing his or her religion effectively.
Then both of you should try not to governed by your emotion rather be governed by your principles.

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 Make sure your friends and parents think success for the prospect of both of you. The age gap should not be too far apart, closer intellect, if not similar, a closer religion out look, close social relationship and none determinant personalities will make a good marriage far more likely to succeed.

3.Build Up Commitment 

This plays a very vital role in the success of a good marriage, where there is not enough commitment, there is bound to be flaws in the home.

It should be full commitment, and not just partial commitment as this will help to strengthen the bond between the partners.

5 Things to Consider When Choosing A Good Marriage

4. Always resolve Your Differences

Never go to bed with an unresolved conflict. Whenever there is any misunderstanding, try as much as possible to resolve a conflict within a week.

5. Intimacy

Intimacy or sex is  another thing to consider, if your mate is constantly unable to attain good sexual experience , seek counsel because this is the most vital issue. Both parties should try to be committed to each other in this matter.

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A good marriage is attainable, only if you can pay the price and work it out deliberately.

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