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Sunday, 21 August 2016

Marriage And Godly Character Part 2

Marriage And Godly Character Part 2
  Today i will be sharing on the part two of this topic, remember in your marriage anything that goes wrong is the man's fault as in for an example when you board a bus the driver is in charge because he is the one steering the wheels. so also the man is the head of the home and the driver,pilot of the home so therefore whatever goes wrong in the home is the man's fault.
  Remember the garden of Eden when Adam eat the forbidden fruit, who did God looked for? Adam!, why because he's the one in charge.
  Today we will be looking at How to access godly character for marital fulfillment and also godly character for marital fulfillment.

HOW TO ACCESS GODLY CHARACTER FOR MARTIAL FULFILLMENT

1.GIVE YOUR LIFE TO JESUS. 
  Until Christ is formed in your life, you cannot exhibit godly character.

2. BY THE HELP OF THE HOLY SPIRIT.
  There are things you cannot do by your self, and also there are things you don't want to do, but find yourself doing it. but when you are empowered by the Holy ghost, you will see yourself overcoming those negative character.

3.BY MEDITATING ON THE WORD OF GOD.

  Take time to study the bible and meditate on it.you should also allow the word to guide you on what to do. good fellowship with the word helps you to build godly character.

4.BY THE WISDOM OF GOD
  Remember wisdom is the right application of knowledge. we need the wisdom of God in every situation of life. the bible says that a wise woman builds her own home and the foolish woman tears it down with her own hands. a wise woman does not allow issues in her home to degenerate into divorce.

5.GUARD YOUR THOUGHTS
 Your thinking patterns is important to your godly character. because whatever a man thinks in his heart so is he.

CHARACTER FOR MARTIAL FULFILLMENT (GODLY FRUITS)

1.LOVE.
This simply means affection for someone and devotion towards someone. God is love and love is visible.
husband and wives are to love each other. when you love, everything works.

2.JOY.
  This means delight and excitement. joy has nothing to do with emotions or happenings around. happiness can't  be controlled by emotions or happenings around, but joy is like a river that keeps flowing from within. joy gives strength in every battle of life. in your marriage, joy is the strength that keeps you going no matter the challenges.

3.PEACE.
  Peace means calmness,quietness,stillness and serenity.supernatural peace is given to believers. Jesus is the Prince of Peace, when you are born again, he will come and live inside of you and then you will be able to make peace and to rule and reign in your home, and the more mature you will become.If you are a fighter, and every other person's is wrong except you, then you are not matured.

4.LONG SUFFERING.
 This talk about forgiving, tolerance,being patient and selfless. these qualities when directed towards someone, shows you have good character.

5.GENTLENESS.
  Gentleness is a great fruit in the sight of God. Gentleness is good, when you are gentle then you are good.

6.GOODNESS.
This talks about kindness, righteousness and decency. the Bible says you should be good even to those that hate you and also pray for your enemies.even if your spouse is bad, pray for him.

7.FAITH.
  This means confidence, trust,belief, loyalty,reliance and assurance. so, you need trust between husband and wife.

8.TEMPERANCE.
  This means restraint discipline or self-control. we must learn to control ourselves, spirit, soul and our body.

9.APPRECIATE.
  A woman or man should learn who to appreciate, to learn to say thank you ,see what your spouse has done for you and appreciate him or her.

10.DILIGENCE AND HARD WORK.
 The man should go an work. you lack character if you don't work. you are lazy if you are not working. a virtuous woman will gather money to buy and sell and not to give to her husband.